I need reminders.
You can’t trust your eyes when your imagination is out of focus. I saw that somewhere.
Alright. A list of all the sweet stuff. Maybe this post should be titled “Random stuff about him part 3”
TMI ahead:
- He’s started saying “we” a lot. Another thing I haven’t mentioned on here...he asked me to come off birth control. I said I’m not doing that unless I’m married, though.
- He put his head on my chest and just laid there, snuggled up, for maybe twenty minutes straight, stroking my arm and relaxing.
- He holds my hand a lot more often...sometimes he will reach for it when we’re falling asleep or when we’re just lying on his bed talking.
- He built a loft bed in his room after being inspired by my loft bed.
- We went to a convention in NC together, and I know it seems silly to be gushing over this, but he’s not usually PDA in public...but in the car ride on the way there, with his friend and coworker driving, he reached over and put his arm around me for maybe the first hour of the ride.
- He often gives me a kiss on the cheek before we go to sleep and he usually wakes me up with one in the mornings.
- He brought a bowl of watermelon for me for breakfast and had it waiting there for me until I woke up
- He came with me to get my MRI done because I was scared and sat in the room with me. He even told me to do like the 12th doctor and go into the TARDIS as a mental escape like in the episode Heaven Sent.
- It worked
- I truly believe he’s honest
- He cuddles a lot more now
- If he realizes I’ve been hurt by something he said (rarely happens though) he apologizes of his own free will
- He had an original painting commissioned for me at the convention in NC
- He bought me a Yeti mic so I can record better audio for my YouTube videos
- He, out of the blue, says this “have I ever told you how much I appreciate you?”
- We had a talk about a lot of stuff, and during that talk it was established that he’s happy we’re together and he had wanted to ask me if I was
- According to him, i’m an “awesome girlfriend”
- Every now and again, we will be on the phone and then end up either 1. Calling each other back and forth if interruptions come or 2. Spend nearly the whole afternoon and night on the phone just doing our respective things and talking or even being quiet
- He lets me know when he’s done working and when he’s gotten home each day (99% of the time) and this is without me having asked him to do this
- He downloaded the duo lingo app for Norwegian because he said that if we had children he would want them to be bilingual and it would be better if we both knew the language
- He encourages me to write and to work on building a career out of it and even had me come with him to NC (all expenses paid) because it was a networking opportunity
- He says he’s opening up in different ways than just being openly affectionate and that he’s noticed it himself - he’s found himself “accidentally changing” and “getting comfortable subconsciously”
- He wishes we had started our relationship sooner
I know there are a few more things I’m missing, but this will be all for now. I’m actually really grateful for what I’ve found in him. I really am.
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